We’ve all been there – the foreplay was great, the main event is going swell and you’re about to hit the sweet spot, but your female partner is not quite feeling it yet.
It can be quite frustrating when your lady battles to reach orgasm, which is why the team at Under the Covers has decided to share the best of our dirty little secret to turning up the volume on the female orgasm.
Change up your routine
It might be counter-intuitive, but what feels good to you might not feel all that great to her. While deep thrusting may be getting you to the brink and back, the self-same tactic could actually be preventing her from reaching orgasm. One failsafe position we have all come to know and love is the Pullback. You start in the basic missionary and then pull back to allow the base of your penis to rest lightly on her clitoris. Then you brace yourself against a firm surface with your feet and rock gently backwards and forwards in lieu of thrusting. This massages the clitoris and is a sure-fire way or revving the female engine.
Get to grips with dirty talk
Women are natural multitaskers, which means our minds tend to wander during sex. So while you may be on the brink of orgasm while thinking of nothing but her bouncing breasts and warm vagina, she could be making a list of stationary she needs to buy or deciding what to cook for dinner. Get her back in the moment by sharing your dirty thoughts and ensure that she orgasms faster to boot.
Get her input on the matter
Sometimes the best thing you can do is to ask the girl what she wants. Something as simple as an inadvertent rhythm change could be behind her lagging orgasm, so why not get her input on the matter? Just because you’re in the middle of proceedings doesn’t mean you can’t ask for a few handy crib notes…
These are just a few of the ways in which you can dial up the volume on the female orgasm. Keep your eye on the Under the Covers blog for more helpful information to spice up your sex life.